Thursday, April 4, 2013

Goodbye Mr. Ebert

We've lost an amazing man today.  He will be missed

I believe that if, at the end of it all according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is the best we can do.
                                                                    -Roger Ebert

What's new?

I for one am ridiculously excited about spring weather.

The mild winter doesn't bode well for a very comfortable summer, but I'll enjoy the 80 degree highs while they last.

I've been really into wearing my spring dresses.  It's super fun to pull out the real birghts.

Around the house, we've been making some small improvements too.  We replaced the old, nasty ceiling fan in the kitchen with a track light.  A million times better.  And I hung up some art that Brett bought me for Christmas.  Waiting to get the last two hung up and our new console table to be delivered and I can work on getting rid of the last of my college furniture.  I don't think we'll ever get rid of the lamp/table/magazine rack of Brett's.  Sadly.

I also cut my hair really short again for Spring/Summer.  I tried growing it out last summer and I was just never ever happy with it.  So again, I've slowly cut more and more off until I ended up here.

Since we're now in April, I wanted to revisit some of my goals for this year.

First: be more organized and get my shit together

Ha!  No.  All I can say is no.

Focus on quality and only buy things I love

Giving up shopping for Lent helped with this, I think.  I made it the whole time, and it got me out of the habit.

When we decided to buy a console table this week, it was easy for me to decide to shop around for the best bargain, and spend a little more on one that could last us a very long time.  I've tried to apply this as much as possible, whether it's buying a soap dispenser or replacing all of my pajamas that wore out at once.  Quality is worth it if it means I don't have to constantly buy more shit.

Focus on health

Working on it.  Still working on it.

More pink and shiny things

Well, see the dress above?  Early this year I also bought my second cambridge satchel.  In hot pink.  I need to take some photos of it, because it is seriously a STATEMENT.  I love it though.

Have more fun

Definitely.  Lady Gaga concert, visiting friends in Boston, playing drunk air hockey for three hours, eating crawfish in the backyard.  Fun is a priority for us right now and I'm really loving it.

Get a new tattoo

Done.  I kind of want to get another one.  Like ASAP.

I really need to take some pictures now that it's healed, but you can see the bottom peeking out here.  I LOVE it.

Upcoming things I'm psyched about.  Getting/styling my new console table.  Cleaning out the guest room closet (we have literally NO IDEA what's in there, but it's totally full.  Maybe we'll find a million dollars!), getting some vintage Louisiana maps framed and hung, and framing a set of old drafting tools I bought for $5.  Also possibly dying the living room curtains and making some floral pillows.  And rewiring a lamp.

Let's see how much of that actually happens.  Let's just see.

Friday, February 15, 2013


I may not be able to get the peacock headboard of my dreams (unfortunately, I live with a boy). But I can have a chair.

$3 from an estate sale, just in time for Valentina's day. Now I just have to decide what to do with it.

Monday, January 21, 2013

What I've been wearing

Here's a sample of some of the things I've worn over the past couple of weeks.  In that time, our weather has fluctuated from rainy and in the 30s, to sunny and mid-70s.  So there's a big range is what I'm saying.

 Work bathroom pic!

 New bracelet (sale from Anthro)

Featuring a new cardigan and t-shirt (J. Crew after XMas!)

This dress is actually WAY too big, but after I tie it it's not really noticeable.  Good thing because I love it!

I thought this was a pretty boring outfit, and someone pointed out that I'm wearing a basically neon shirt.  So...


Just noticed that there are two key print items in this rundown.  Ha!


New dress, new shoes, happy girl.

Monday, January 7, 2013

In with the new

Like I said in my last post, 2013 is the year to get my shit together.  And I'm starting off big.

Just in time for epiphany, I took all of the Christmas decorations down today, and decluttered SLIGHTLY in the process.  I always hate how empty the house looks when the Christmas tree is gone.  It just looks sad.  But on the bright side, that also means the beginning of Mardi Gras season!  I'm celebrating this afternoon by getting slightly day-drunk (note:  I wrote most of this yesterday.  Not getting drunk at work, I swear).

But that's really nothing compared to what I spent yesterday (and a couple of days before that scouting and buying supplies) cleaning.


Believe it or not these pictures were taken after I'd been at it for awhile.  There is just...SO MUCH STUFF.  And more than that it's just piled everywhere and makes no sense.

Yeah a bunch of stuff had gone into the donate pile and most of my dresses were pulled out at this point.  As you can see, the shoe rack on the door was just not big enough to handle my - admittedly large- shoe collection.  I love shoes.  I do not love cramming them into a 2" gap between shelves.

And here's the impetus behind the whole thing.  I got a 10 pack of huggable hangers in my stocking this year (well, beside my stocking).  And I loved them, really loved them.  I have a lot of shirts that just slip right off the hangers, but these are incredible.  As far as the space saving claim goes, they do save space but the "double your closet space" claim is bogus.  It's not that much of a savings.  But in the end I would definitely say they're worth it.

Another big problem is the towels busting out of a shelf that's not deep enough to hold them.  And these cloth storage bins that I bought almost ten years ago, and which now just have random crap shoved in them.  Brett's side was in better shape than mine, but he still had random piles of crap.

A big part of the problem is those wooden shelves.  When we moved in I thought it would be great to have all of that storage space.  But they are so randomly and oddly placed that they're almost useless.  A couple of them are 6 or 7 inches wide.  All of them are only like 9 inches deep.  Just not great.  But the biggest issue is us not keeping it in good shape.  And I'll own it, having too many clothes.

So my plans were:
  • replace the hangers
  • Move things I use often down to my level.
  • improve scarf/tights situation
  • move my sweaters into the closet
  • find a better place for Brett's shorts
  • rethink towel storage
  • replace cloth bins with clear storage
Midway through it still looked like this.  And I was ready to murder someone.

 But look!  All of my clothes fit in one side!

At the end of that day, I was left with this.

Empty shelves!  Shoes visible and not crammed into tiny spaces or piled everywhere!  And dude, someone wears a lot of plaid.

Towels neatly folded with room to spare (although I wish we could go completely to the turkish thin towels.  I love them, love how little space they take up.  Brett's not a big fan).!  Handbags visible and not stuffed into a bin!  Necklaces not tangled together and easily accessible!

So my system is
  • dresses on the left, organized by color
  • shelves to hold sweaters and shorts
  • a drawer at the bottom for dry cleaning
  • shirts and jackets on the top right, organized by color
  • skirts and jeans on the bottom
  • Necklaces easy to see and grab
  • Bracelets, rings, etc. in trays, easy to find what I'm looking for
  • Shoe racks with shoes worn most often near the center
  • Boots stored under dresses, belts looped over the rear hanging bar
The reality is that I'm never going to have a beautiful closet.  I could pull out everything and paint the walls bright white, I could change out the light fixture to something that has more than one bulb, I could rip out the ugly wooden shelves.  And I may do those things.  But I won't.  I actually may do the light thing after my next Ikea trip, but nothing more than that.

But even with this small change, it just feels so much better in there.  Lighter, less oppresive.  I don't feel like clothes are going to rain down on me any moment.  And I get to look at all my pretty shoes.

There are a couple of more things I'd love to do.  I want a laundry sorting system in here, but we're limited on space.  I also want a full length mirror.  If not in the closet, then in the bedroom.  For now, I'm just happy to have all of my clothes visible!

So what next?  Probably my craft closet but oh lord, that's going to be an undertaking.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

So, it's 2013

I can't really believe it's a new year.  2012 was one of the worst and best years of my life (first half: worst, second half: best) so I'm happy to ring in the new year and continue the great streak I've been on for the past few months.  I'm back at work after a great holiday break.  Seriously so relaxing.  I should take three weeks off more often.

We've also made some changes I need to post about, once I figure out how to take pictures of the smallest room on earth.  But here's a teaser.  We had most of the common areas of the house painted due to some Hurricane Isaac/our air conditioner leaking water everywhere damage. Having to take everything down and put it back up has given me a little motivation to reevaluate all of our STUFF.  There is just SO MUCH STUFF.  We have a couple of areas that I really love.

Jeez, I want to replace that lamp.

But when I take down my holiday decorations, there will be some evaluation of all of the things.  And this desire has tied in strongly to my goals for the coming year.

In 2013, I want to

  • be better organized
  • focus on quality over quantity
  • only buy things I love
  • focus on health
  • have more pink and shiny things
  • get another tattoo
  • have more fun
I have some other goals, but this is what I've got for public consumption.  My overall mantra for this year is to be cool. Yes, cool in that I'm so cool.  But also, don't sweat the small stuff, be brave, be spontaneous.  Just be cool.

I will.